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Value #3: Being an inclusive community

20/10/2014

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As part of God's diverse people we warmly welcome those from all backgrounds and we seek to make church accessible to unbelievers, offering a sense of belonging.
We are a community of grace in which people can be open and vulnerable.
We are God's forgiven people and we welcome and support other broken people as they journey to find forgiveness, peace, joy, hope and freedom in Christ. 

There is such a variety of people in the world. With all our different cultures and ways of living, it makes interaction with others a rich and varied experience. There are so many different sounds, colours, smells, tastes, personalities, styles, interests, hobbies, and more. A wonderful array of humanity. 

And yet, alongside this, there are real difficulties for many. There are some groups or types of people who we may find difficult. It might be because of background, or a nationality, or because of certain behaviours we find unpleasant or annoying, or because of a way of life, a belief system, or a personality-type... there are endless differences between us as human beings on this planet, and so as well as the beauty of it all, the scope for finding people we don't like is significant, and so the fractures begin.

It has been this way since way back. In Jesus' day there were lots of tensions between different groups and didn't have much time for one another. But Jesus made a point of spending time with all kinds of people and often this made onlookers uncomfortable. They would wonder, how can he spend time with these people one minute, and with those the next.

Here's a classic encounter from Luke's gospel, chapter 5:
27 After this, Jesus went out and saw a tax collector by the name of Levi sitting at his tax booth.“Follow me,” Jesus said to him, 28 and Levi got up, left everything and followed him.

29 Then Levi held a great banquet for Jesus at his house, and a large crowd of tax collectors and others were eating with them. 30 But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law who belonged to their sect complained to his disciples, “Why do you eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?”

31 Jesus answered them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. 32 I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”


Tax collectors were hated as traitors. They were working for the occupying forces, so you can imagine the hostility they faced, and that's before you consider the way they would fleece people by taking a cut for themselves. They were outcasts, and so their social circle became other 'outcasts'... but Jesus not only calls Levi (who became Matthew the disciple) but spends time at his house with his friends and eats with them.

What's the big deal about eating and drinking? In that culture, as in ours, its a significant sign of friendship, association and acceptance. To refuse to eat with someone is to reject them. 

Did Jesus just sweep Levi's issues under the carpet? No. The inclusive nature of Jesus love and friendship and acceptance is the beginning of a journey. It brings transformation; power to be healed from the brokenness of our lives. It is a call to become more complete and fulfilled than we ever imagined.

God has accepted us as his people, even though we did nothing to deserve it. 
So realising this and seeing ourselves rightly, we understand we are those who have received his grace, not as those who are better than others. There's no room for a 'holier than thou' attitude.
So seeing ourselves rightly, we see others rightly too, as made in God's image, created and loved.
And putting those two things together, along with the example of Jesus, we seek to be an inclusive community, valuing all people, and calling them to follow him. 
We adapt. We welcome. We include. We love. 
Just as God has accepted us into his family, so we love, welcome and include others too. 

Lord thank you for your grace and forgiveness in our lives, making us whole. Help us to show grace and love to others.
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Normanton Road community space

18/10/2014

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Alongside the piano and Guerilla Gardening zone on Normanton Road, yesterday Angolan food was being served from some of the ladies of 'Laziz - the World to you on a plate', an initiative of our friends at Upbeat Communities - the social enterprise charity. Food prepped at St Chads Centre, and sold to the public in the street... 
Ant and Patrick (Curate at St Augustine's Church) first in line to test it!
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The Art of Celebration tour - BIG CHURCH NIGHT IN

16/10/2014

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Video plug for the Rend Collective and Phil Wickham evening.
Thursday 13th November at The Riverside Centre on Pride Park. Let Ant or Adam know if you want to come and we will sort tickets.

BCNI REND X WICKHAM OFFICIAL from Louise Allen on Vimeo.

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One anothers...

14/10/2014

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Here are the 59 “One Anothers” of the New Testament.
We talked about them on Sunday morning. 
Have a read. What strikes you?

1. “…Be at peace with each other.” (Mark 9:50)
2. “…Wash one another’s feet.” (John 13:14)
3. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
4. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
5. “…Love one another…” (John 13:35)
6. “…Love one another…” (John 15:12)
7. “…Love one another” (John 15:17)
8. “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love…” (Romans 12:10)
9. “…Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)
10. “Live in harmony with one another…” (Romans 12:16)
11. “…Love one another…” (Romans 13:8)
12. “…Stop passing judgment on one another.” (Romans 14:13)
13. “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you…” (Romans 15:7)
14. “…Instruct one another.” (Romans 15:14)

Click on 'Read more' for the rest...


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Value #2: Sharing life as family

12/10/2014

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As children of God, we care for one another, disciple one another and are committed to resolving any conflict between us. We celebrate life together and discuss big decisions as extended family. We emphasise hospitality and use homes for most of church life. 
This model is also a simple and reproducible form of church without any trappings that could limit freedom and flexibility.
What is family? Here are some of the things we all came up with today as we met together:

Families... 
- do things together... like go to Legoland (apparently!)
- support each other and help each other
- are together in the hard times
- eat together
- relax together
- celebrate together
- give gifts to one another
- do jobs for each other
- tell silly jokes
- laugh
- argue
- show love
- are friends
- are where you can 'be yourself' and be honest
- travel together

The bible uses the metaphor of family for church a lot. It is a major emphasis. All the things we wrote above are true for church communities. Because it's not simply that church is like a family. It actually is a family. 

We read various parts of the bible including 1 Timothy. This book of the bible is a letter from the Apostle Paul to Timothy, a young man who was leading a church. Paul was talking about how church life should be, and in middle of all that he gives this reason:
I am writing this to you now, even though I hope to be with you soon, so that if I am delayed, you will know how people must conduct themselves in the household of God, which is the pillar and foundation of the truth. 
1 Timothy 3: 14-16 

The household of God. And New Testament language backs this up as we read of God as our Father, being joint heirs with Jesus, being brothers and sisters, adoption, new birth, and so on.

This is a key identity for us.

We are family.
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Rend Collective on community

11/10/2014

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We enjoy a bit of Rend Collective, and they're due to play at the Riverside Centre in Derby on 13th November - see www.bigchurchnightin.com 
Here's some excellent comments from them on the importance of church community. And a few clips of their songs mixed in too.
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What's the big deal about community?

11/10/2014

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Billy Joel, the American singer/songwriter, sang a great song called 'Piano Man'. Lots of people know it and enjoy singing along to it. I'm even thinking of going and banging it out as a tune on the piano that Dan from 'Pocket Places' has anchored out on Normanton Road for a couple of months - though of course I can't play remotely as well as Mr Joel. But it's a great anthem.

Many people love the song, but may not realise what its about. It is actually all about our need for community and how people crave it, yet may lack it even in a crowd. Listen to these lines:
Now Paul is a real estate novelist,
Who never had time for a wife.
And he's talking with Davy,
Who's still in the Navy,
And probably will be for life.

And the waitress is practising politics,
As the businessmen slowly get stoned,
Yes they're sharing a drink they call loneliness
But it's better that drinking alone.
There's a fuller commentary on the song here.

We are wired for community - we need it. We don't function well and our mental (and sometimes physical) health suffers without it. Why is this?

In Genesis chapter 1, the bible says men and women are made in the image of God - which is an interesting and baffling phrase. It's given brain ache to many great theologians as they grapple with it. What is it?

Well it doesn't mean we look like God in terms of eyes, a nose and a face. But it does mean that we reflect something of his character and nature. And one of the amazing things about the view of God we have in the bible is that he is in community in himself!

This opens up all kinds of other discussions of course, which make the mind boggle (though should it be surprising that seeking understand God's nature makes the mind boggle?) But it is amazing to realise there is something about the very nature of God which is a loving community - Father, Son, Holy Spirit. At the heart of God himself we see loving relationships. Amazing!

So as those made in the image of God (whatever that fully means), we get something of a sense of why relationships and community are so important to us. Even though the image is broken in us, this community instinct is still there. And the best and most important kind of community we need is with God himself, and with others who also know him. Together we find ourselves to be part of his kingdom, his family, a new society, a community of faith, love and hope.
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Value #1: BUILDING GOSPEL COMMUNITY

6/10/2014

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As those who believe the gospel of Jesus Christ, we are committed to encouraging one another with the good news that he came, died for us, rose to new life, and reigns as King - bringing us life. We want to share this news with others. 
We challenge one another to be servant-hearted, risk-taking and flexible, because the good news is more important than our preferences, security and traditions.
 
As we live life, serving together and loving one another, church is encountered as a network of relationships rather than a meeting you attend or a place you enter.
So, yesterday afternoon we began our series looking at our values, and we thought about this first value - being a community based around the good news of Jesus. 

What is community? Why do we desire it? What happens when we don't have it?

People all need community; it's something about the way we are wired - how we are made. We need relationships, to give and receive support, and a sense of togetherness around common aims. When we don't have it, loneliness and isolation is a terrible thing. Indeed, solitary confinement is one of the worst punishments we inflict on someone in our society.

So communities usually have a purpose - there is something that binds them together; something that they do together. For us, this is believing and sharing the good news of Jesus. 
In the bible, the apostle Paul wrote to a church in Philippi, both appealing to them to live in loving community together, and reminding them what the gospel is - what Jesus came to do.

He's saying - come on - live together in loving community around a common purpose:
1 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

Then he reminds them about the good news what Jesus came to do, both as our core belief, and as our example... being willing to be put out to any lengths in order to serve others and see people become part of his kingdom:
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature God,
    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death--
        even death on a cross!
9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
    and gave him the name that is above every name,
10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
    in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,
    to the glory of God the Father.

This community serves God and is outward looking as well as caring for its members:
12 Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.
14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky 16 as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain. 17 But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. 18 So you too should be glad and rejoice with me.


Lord, please do this in us.

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